Profile whynottryit: Want a Partner Not a Project

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Can Speak English
I Would Describe Myself As I am a goal oriented, humorous, sincere woman that would like to meet a successful, honest man that can be a friend and perhaps grow into a relationship.

I am a mother of 2. A son 20 and a daughter 14...I have been a very devoted mother and now it's time to devote some time to myself.

I am the Executive Director for a small non-profit agency. I enjoy my work and go home feeling like I've done some good in the world everyday.

I work hard, and expect the man in my life to do the same. I hate the word content;...I believe you should be happy with what you've been blessed with...but not content. I believe that if you aren't moving forward, then you are moving backwards. I have little respect or tolerance for men who don't work or have a relationship with their children, and feel that they can't do better in life than what they are doing. Successful men...in whatever they do...are a huge turn-on!!!

I'm intelligent, witty, attractive, honest, I love to be spoiled, I can carry on a conversation for hours, I believe that two people should NEVER stop dating even after they are married. I enjoy remodeling/redecorating my home (historical house built in 1863) and working in my beautiful yard. I haven't had the opportunity to travel much in my life but I excited for what the future will bring as my children grow up and leave home.

I am a spiritual person, I attend church every Sunday. I believe in being true, faithful and helping your fellow man.

I don't care for liars, cheaters, people who think that they are better than others, unmotivated people, and people that aren't positive about life.

If you would like to chat sometime, please feel free to send me a message.
Sign Gemini

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is Curvy
My Height Is 5' 2 (1.57 m)
My Eyes Are Brown
My Ethnicity Is Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is Separated
I Have Kids Yes - At Home
I Want Kids Not Sure
My Best Feature Is Eyes
Body Art Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is Brown
I Have One Or More Of These Cat
Willing To Relocate Yes

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is Some College
My Current Employment Status Is Full-time
My Speciality Is Other
My Job Title Is Executive Director
I Make This Much In A Year Under $100,000USD/yr
I Live With Kid(s)
At Home Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink No

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Teachers Pet
My Social Behavior Is Observant, Friendly, Flirtatious
My Interest And Hobbies Are Learning, Movies, Family, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Volunteering, Shopping
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be Once again, it would matter more about the chemistry that would be between 2 people..than what you were doin on a date. I've been on some great dates, just going for a drive and grabbing a burger with someone I had good chemistry with. Then, I've been on some extravagant dates with someone I had not chemistry with, and they were awful.
I've Always Wanted To Try Wow, where do I start. I tried sushi about a year ago...and LOVED it! I would like to do some traveling. I would love to go to somewhere in the Greek Isles...a remote village overlooking the ocean. I've just taken up belly dancing as an exercise...kind of cool. I would love to sky dive if I could get a written note from God that I would survive...LOL I would love to go to an underdeveloped part of the world and work on some kind of project.
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Christian
I Attend Services Once A Week
My Political Views Are Conservative
My Goal In Life Is To have more people at my funeral than anyone else ;-)

Seriously...to be able to raise strong, healthy, stable children. To give back to the world in some way. To be a positive influence somehow on everyone that I come into contact with. And to find the person that I am completely, utterly, head over heals in love with and live out life with him and have him there holding my hand when my time is over.
My Kind Of Humor Is Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Comedy, Romance, Drama
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Country, Rock, Pop
When I Read, I Always Read Biography, Classic, Home & Garden, Humor, Religious
My Idea Of Fun Is My idea of fun could be just about anything...as long as it is with someone that I care about. I enjoy having friends over, I enjoy a picnic in the park, I enjoy a theme park, I enjoy live theater, or just staying at home alone and watching a movie with all the lights turned out and a bowl of popcorn. I believe it has more to do with WHO you are with than WHAT you are doing. If you are doing it with someone you love, raking leaves and painting can be fun.

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For? In a man I am looking for someone who is determined, aggressive, goal driven, and intelligent in his business life. But can come home and enjoy cooking out on the grill for his family and friends. In our relationship he finds time to give me a call at work and tells me he loves me and can't wait to see me tonight, he loves holidays as well as "just because" days. He doesn't think that his work is more important than my work just because he makes more money than me. He can take care of me emotionally when I need it, but can just be there to cheer me on when I'm able or want to handle a problem myself.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed